Sex on the first date?
please stop the question marks.
Man, they come, they go, but what makes them stay. The theory says that if you sleep with a man on the first date there won't be a second. But than what happens in real life is that if you won't sleep with a guy when he wants he will not call you later. So what is it? Sex? Or not? How can a girl know when it's "allowed" to sleep with a guy? When she is considered "Easy" and he will lose interest or when she is considered "Hard", "Prude" and then he'll also lose interest. Let's say I meet a guy I like, he is nice and all, I invite him for coffee, we talk and everything is perfect. Now let’s say he kisses me and pulls me to bed, can I sleep with him and expect a serious relationship after? Or if I do I have to know it's a one night stand although we both know we will see each other every day after for the rest of the year. And now let's say I slept with him and we went to dinner after. Is he just being polite or di I need to read more into this? And what if he calls me the day after and we go out again? Now I have to read more into it right? So why two days after he says it would never work? Is it just because I slept with him or there is another reason? And how can I know if the only thing he says is "I don’t see a future here. " Why should he see a future? We met like a week ago. If you counted the question marks you should have got to eleven by now, and I didn’t ask the biggest question of all. Why there aren’t any rules for this stuff? So come on girls let's make a rules book so we can stop the question marks. I'm tired of being so confused over something so simple. To be continued….